First of all, one’s education level is the (不用加the) essential to deal with problems. In his/her studying period, he/she has learned plenty of knowledge of culture and manners from their teachers. He/She should know how to treat with happenings in decent language and behaviour. There are many vivid instances you can see in the daily life. A simple example, a well educated man who wears simple cloth (穿着简单的布?)
stepped on another man’s foot unguardedly in crowded subway station, the latter who is dressed modern and decorated with jewelry shout abuse after the former apologized obliging. It’s a so ugly picture.(完全偏题的例子，这个例子只能说明一个人的素质和衣着无关，而你这一段的分论点是“一个人的教育背景和能力无关”，这是一个严重的扣分点!)
Moreover, one’s living environment is also an important element. If one lives in a complicated situation that (is) full of inferior people who are tyrannized, he/she must be influenced to settle cases in a rude way. On the contrary, if a personlives with high level friends who do everything considered and patiently, he/she would copy their merits to let the problem down gently.
in poorer families can deal (+with) problems better than those who were born with a silver in their mouthes (应该是with a spoon with silver in the mouth吧?即便如此这种说法也有中式英语之嫌，不推荐使用).Recently, the problem of how to cultivate the children’s abilities has become a hot issue in society.